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Thursday, August 11, 2005

A Confession



I remember I was 14 yrs old when one of my cousin sister eloped with her boyfriend and married him. Me n Depti ( my cousin sister) were very good friends. She was 19 at that time, she met a guy in a party n was madly in love with him. Her father came to know about her, and that night there was a big scene at her place .Depti was a strong girl and refused to listen to my Uncle. Even my mom tried hard to make her understand but she won’t listen to any 1. And after a big discussion they decided to find a guy for her .

That’s it!!!!!!! Naren (Deptis hubby) was in Calcutta , i called him and told him what’s happening . He came to my town after 3 day. We made a plan .After 2 days Depti ran away with him. Now she is married with 2 kids and very happy .Naren is a damn good hubby , even my uncle could never had found a better guy then him. My family don’t have any contacts with her. They declared her dead :( and no one is allowed to take her name .That’s a sad part :( .

But sometimes I think , how will my family react if they came to know I helped her , I m so scared of my Uncle , maybe hez going to kill me !!!!!. Even my mom wont forgive me for this .But on other hand when I see Depti happy , I think what I have done was perfectly fine and right thing .But deep in my mind I always feel sorry for my Uncle n Aunty, they cried so much, specially her mom. She badly miss her , I wanted to tell her many times that shez fine but somehow I stop myself , and I don’t know how long will I keep this secret within me :( .I hope what I did was right .

---------------- ....... sad st000nie ....... -------------------

15 Comments:

  • awww hun!!!!!
    dont u cry!!!!!
    u know,personally i think wat u did was very very brave!!!
    and its not wrong...cuz in d end wat matterz d most is tht yr cousin is happy right?
    and u say she is!
    as far as ur uncle and aunty go,i'm sure they will understand later...but dont blame ya self fo' anythin ok?
    now i want a happy st000nie
    :)
    p.s hope ya din get me confused wid icey-d otha ice princess :P
    mez a diff one shez r000nie mez p000nie...or ice_avrilzzz lol

    nd yr secret is safe wid us

    ;)

    hugz
    p0000nie

    By Blogger Michelle, at 8/13/2005 06:00:00 AM  

  • When I was in a relationship and things wre getting tough coz we both were from different caste. She said..it might be a bit difficult to get married...but I will try my best. Eloping is something that never crossed my mind...damn, what will I do after running away with her. Another responsibility on my head.....hehehe

    But on other hand when I see Depti happy , I think what I have done was perfectly fine and right thing
    Awwww.....thats such a nice thing to do st000nie.

    I hope what I did was right
    As long as the couple is happy n things r going fine for them...I dont think its anything wrong from ur side. So chill st0000nie. I hope her parents will be fine sooon.




    Pssst...if in future I've to elope now I know whom to ask help for...heheeh

    By Blogger Ar Ar Ar Arrrrr, at 8/13/2005 09:12:00 AM  

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    By Blogger strawy, at 8/13/2005 10:41:00 AM  

  • aawwww , now i m feeling good.
    Ice : thnx sweety , yeah they r happy, my uncle dont show but my aunt still miss her sometimes , sobs

    Arz000n : eloping is really a brave thing to do i guess ,they r very happy n i still have contacts with them ( shhhhhhh its another secret ,,, hehehe )
    n yesss i m here to help u eloping !!! anytime !!!

    Mistu :hehe misty even i wonder now sometimes for wat i did ....
    even i wanna elope someday ... hehehe. hugzzzz

    ...... st000nie .......

    By Blogger strawy, at 8/13/2005 03:30:00 PM  

  • Dear,

    Love is blind and courage is what matters on top of everything.

    By Blogger wwww, at 8/13/2005 04:10:00 PM  

  • Hey Strawy !!

    so sweet of you to help the two souls in luv !! u shd feel proud of urself to see Depti happy.

    u know ur uncle n aunt cried for her, so may b u can casually mention @ her whrbouts to them, may b they wd gt dissolved to see their grand children n forget evrything.

    chill !!

    By Blogger Invincible, at 8/14/2005 04:21:00 AM  

  • hey st000nie

    parents' happiness shud be in their kids happiness...they shud understand that they hvgiven right values to their kids n they will do everythng after mch thinking...she is happy thats solid proof that she has taken the rite decision...u helped her..thats really nice...all i hope that her parents accept her...dnt be sad..everythng will go fine in future..keep smiling..:)

    By Blogger sona, at 8/14/2005 08:47:00 AM  

  • I feel what u did was right… parents at times force their decision due to their ego… they be right most of the times but there are occasions when they fail to think rationally…

    To live independently is the first right of everyone… as per me you have not done anything wrong… and the happy married life of your cousin adds to your doing… well done…

    BTW,
    I enjoyed reading 99 facts about u… ooh so ur a good looking Panju Babe ;-)
    hhhmmmmmm
    That’s a very nice post… cheers

    By Blogger PuNeEt, at 8/14/2005 09:39:00 AM  

  • hey vinc000 , sona & puneet thnx for ur lovely comments ,i know wat i did is right but i m too scared to tell them .I m keeping this secret within me from over 10 yrs now n how long i have to keep it i dont know ,, sobs .
    anyaws i shudnt think much bout it coz shez happy n i feel wat i did was right... sooo cheeerssssssss ..hehhee
    hey puneet thnx for reading my 99 facts ... ummmm i m average looking gal (shhhhhh dont tell any 1) hehehehe

    ....... st000nie .......

    By Blogger strawy, at 8/14/2005 12:54:00 PM  

  • huh adore , cant i find some 1 better ...lolzzz n for ur kind information i wont elope with a GAY ( hides coz u gonna kill me now )hehehhehee
    ....... st000nie .......

    By Blogger strawy, at 8/14/2005 03:35:00 PM  

  • grrrrrrr adore ,u r too much ,,,, n u shud also remember my song .... kisi ke hath na aayegi yeh ladki ..... sooooo backkk offf u ghatiyaaaaaaa
    shoooooooo shoooooo shoooooooo

    ....... st000nie .......

    By Blogger strawy, at 8/14/2005 03:52:00 PM  

  • st00nie..i must say it was very brave and intelligent for a 14 yr old to set up plan like this... :)

    don't regret what u have done...as long as ur cousin sis is happy..then, u also should be happy..

    about her parents..time will heal everything..

    =am00nie=

    By Blogger tulipspeaks, at 8/15/2005 05:50:00 AM  

  • I'll be honest with u :) I dun think wut u did at jutst 14 was right lol! I mean I seriously wudn't do that even if I think my cuz is right...only cos at 14 I'd be a juvenile n helping a teenager to elope wud be quite scary for me...

    With the parents being selfish n egoistic, is altogether a different problem. Actually at 19, youngsters of our origin should ne listening to their parents :) But I u'stand that she had to do something fast cos the parents were looking for someone else for her. And provided her BF was a true gentleman she did the right thing.

    Now that things with ur cuzn r just fine n that she's happy, it's really releiving for u. If she ever brings her children to show the family, wud ur family still reject her? I think they'll be fine when they see the little ones...perhaps after that and after the tensions calm down, u can tell em...after all, life is too short to be so angry abt something...u gotta tell em that. It's good to let something out like that...

    hugggz st000nie u brave gal :)
    k000kie.

    By Blogger Keshi, at 8/15/2005 06:32:00 AM  

  • Amutha : thnx alot for commenting ,i m not regretting but its just sometimes i m confused ... was it right or wrong wat i did , but now i m feeling better ....hugzzzzz

    Keshuuuu :::: dont break my heart babyyy , it was scary for me too still i did it , well there was a reason behind that.
    anyways hope things get better someday .... muah babezzzzzz , thnx, love ya ,,,,,

    ....... st000nie .......

    By Blogger strawy, at 8/15/2005 09:45:00 AM  

  • I'm sure u had a valid reason for doing so st000nie, I trust ur conscience...and u made ur cuzn happy cos she's really happy in her married life na...so u did well girl n u'll be blessed for that - hugggggz n muahhhhhz!

    k000kie.

    By Blogger Keshi, at 8/16/2005 02:18:00 AM  

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